Romantic advice whether you are in a relationship or not

A Cosmological Consequence of Valentine’s Day for Your Love Life and for Your Best Friends (I): Advice for Single Couples

Want more Life Kit? Subscribe to our weekly newsletter

to get expert advice on lifestyle topics like money, relationships, health and more.

Valentine’s Day is a time to reflect on your love life, whether you’re mulling over a breakup, taking your relationship to the next level or … spicing things up with a third partner.

This comic offers tips in regards to peace with singleness, in a world that wants everyone partnering up. One tip? Your mother or your best friend can be on your list in times of need. The story can be read here.

Romantic advice (regardless of your relationship status): Questions to ask your partner about romance and their relationship with money. An example from a young couple

These conversation starters can help couples get at the heart of their values, including how to deal with conflict, attitudes toward gender roles and their relationship with money. A question to ask is if you or I will give up on anything once we’re married. Read the story here.

When we think about romance, many of us have a specific script in mind. Two people fall in love and marry each other. Some people don’t work on that traditional path.

If you’re curious about non-monogamy, the first step is talking to your partner about the possibility of opening up your relationship. Tell your partner why you’re interested. Maybe you’re in a straight relationship and want to figure out your sexuality. Maybe you want to form a relationship with someone who’s also figuring out their gender. Maybe you’d like to have more partners. Read the story here.

The writer talks about how couples can create a contract to express their needs. The contract should cover expectations for day-to-day life as well as intimacy and personal and professional goals. Read the story here.

Source: Romantic advice (regardless of your relationship status)

Romantic Advice (Regardless-of-Your-Relationship Status): How to Avoid Divorce and a Prenuptial Agreement

Are you tired of looking at dating profiles on your phone? It is time to meet people in real life. A sexuality and relationship educator shares advice about how to meet new people, strike up conversations and move on from a love interest if the vibe isn’t there. One tip: Try going places alone, and don’t get lost in your phone. If you aren’t scrolling, you will appear more present and open. You can listen to the episode here.

It’s hard to end a relationship even if you are sure of your decision. Dating coach Damona Hoffman walks us through the breakup process and explains what you can do to help minimize conflict. For example, if you aren’t legally married, it’s still smart to get in writing how you plan to split up everything from pets to property in the event of a breakup. The story is available here.

Everyone should consider a prenuptial agreement, says family law attorney Theresa Viera. It’s a legal contract between spouses that lays out how to manage money in a marriage and after a divorce. You can discuss it with your partner and decide if it’s right for you. The story is available here.

Source: Romantic advice (regardless of your relationship status)

Why you shouldn’t flirt? What to do if you’re afraid to fall in love, and what to do when you can’t

It can be frightening to flirt. Is it possible you would get rejected? According to dating experts, reframing mindset is key to an enjoyable flirting experience. Try approaching others not based on how attractive you find them but instead on their body language. Is it friendly? Is it open? The people who are fun to talk to, regardless of whether or not you click, are the ones that you’ll most enjoy talking to. Read the story here.

The digital story was edited by Malaka Gharib. Beck Harlan is the visual editor. We’d be glad to hear from you. We can be reached at either [email protected] or 202-216-9823.